Simple and fair pre nup (Prenuptial agreement)
What ever wealth I come to this marriage with remains mine. What ever wealth we accumulate during our marriage is ours. If we ever separate we will share this wealth lovingly and willingly half and half. That is 50% each. Half to husband half to wife.
If we should ever separate neither of us will be obligated to support the other,in any way, neither of us will have to financially support the other after a separation.
We united in love we hope love will unite us eternally, but if this is not our destiny, we hope and pray we can part as friends, and no harm is done.
Signed …………………………………………………….Wife
Singed……………………………………………………..Husband
Thursday, 21 October 2010
Tuesday, 5 October 2010
Thursday, 3 December 2009
Gift ideas for your boyfriend or husband.
Gift ideas for your boyfriend or husband.
They say the difference between a man and a boy is just the price of his toy. I get the idea, but have you seen the price of toys these days. Well any way guys do like toys and gadgets so think along these lines.
Any radio controlled flying model, eg a mini radio controlled helicopter. Yes it is a fact, did you know your boyfriend/husband really wants to be captain scarlet. The system never quite knocked that out of him.
Does your man look very uneasy when you mention cleaning? Sooth his troubled mind with the new mini Robomop softbase, yes this little baby cleans stuff, but because it is a gadget, he will love playing with it, and joy oh joy you finally got him cleaning.
The mp4 film watch for under £50. why do men love gadgets. Well it has something to do with well just being a boy, but also the only viable role model he ever had when growing up was either James Bond or Bat Man. Yes, yes, I know it is sad, but guys just need some more viable role models, it’s not their fault.
If your husband is well educated then he will obviously have an in depth knowledge of Captain Kirk, Dr Who and Obi Wan Kenobi. Which one is the best….
Oh, don’t you know anything; it is Dr Who of course, and thank God for that. Why? Because he has more cool gadgets and know how than all the rest put together. But this is good because he doesn’t fight. Yep no fisticuffs, just pure know how and he is cool. So a few years ago a Dr Who scarf would have been a cool option, but now you can actually buy a Dr Who sonic screwdriver. OK it is for kids but did you know.
Your husbands has always wanted one of these, and with its ultra violate capability it can be used to detect forged bank notes and credit cards, and he can write invisible messages with it. Maybe he will write some sweet romantic message for you. But you’ll need to use the ultra violet end to read it.
Well now for the ultimate gifts, is it make love or make war. Let’s end with the best so; the ultimate gadget gift for you husband or boyfriend is this…
OK for many years now he has had a secret desire. A desire to have knowledge and ability above and beyond other men. He wants to be the very best for you and your family, he wants to attain the ultimate status for you and those he loves, yes you guessed it your husband wants… he wants to be… well… he wants to be a Jedi; the ultimate gift of course is a light sabre. Not some kiddies one, not plastic rubbish but the proper one. One with a bright beam of light and it makes all the right sounds and things, it looks cool and every thing. The sounds are very important. Have you ever noticed how men can mimic any action sound? Weird isn’t it! The down side is, they sell for about £99 and the more down side, one is no good, you need two before your boys can be fighting properly.
Do not despair because we left the best to last. If you are a woman you have infinite resources to provide the very best thing in the whole world. The thing that every man wants, guaranteed. The thing that will satisfy his every desire his every longing. The thing that can cement your relationship and secure his love forever. What is it? Well ask your self, what does he love most in the whole world, I mean beyond football and beer, these are just substitutes. What does he love the most, what would he dedicate his whole life to willingly…
It is you of course. He loves you most of all in the whole world. Maybe you feel that you have already given yourself, and all the energy you have. Maybe you feel tired, don’t worry, just let us give you this idea, and we promise it is the best gift ever for you husband or boyfriend. He idealises you, I know it can be hard to believe sometimes but he does. You are the source of all his love comfort and beauty. If some celeb is providing the beauty then watch him kick her ass out of your relationship when you give him the best gift ever.
What is it, it is a glamorous/sexy photo of you in a nice tasteful frame. I know what you might be thinking. But I’m too fat, not glam enough. The celebs are perfect I am not. Well, Forget all this, you have the ultimate emotional power. To start with you are a real woman, you are actually really with your guy. He can reach out and touch you. He chose you anyway. The media portrays a very specific beauty that all men are supposed to desire. Except they don’t, there is endless beauty in variety, and the good news, the older a man is the more he realises this and throws off the brainwashing of the media. Then there is the fact that a good photographer can make anyone look fantastic. If you’re not convinced of that then there is technology. Computers can be used to make you look tall thing wide, tanned pale anything you want. This photo will be the very best gift ever you give him. There is only one thing better.
Variety, why give him one photo when you could give him a whole album. Get some trusted friend to take the pics then take them to a professional to do the techniqual stuff. Your friend needs to be a good photographer. Or better if you can afford it go to a professional photographer and start from scratch.
An album will be better that one photo, just because it provides infinite variety. Try wearing different costumes. If you have seen him looking at princess lea, or wonder woman with a little twinkle in his eye. Don’t let them get the twinkle, you can hire some costumes and take all that glamour for your self. In his eyes you will become every beautiful woman there is. Every time he sees an image of wonder woman he will think of you, and how he is the luckiest man in the world. If beauty was like wealth, don’t worry that the celebs are more wealthy than you, you can steel away there wealth, just steel their image. Your man is on your side. He will worship your beauty in their clothes. This is just how a man’s mind works.
Giving him photos is like becoming a celeb yourself. Having glamorous or sexy photos is like being on TV. If he looks at these every day, it is like you are on TV every day. You become the celeb you affirm your status as the most important woman in his life.
Some tips, always make the photos glamorous or sexy for maximum impact. You don’t want to hear, ‘that’s nice luv’ you want to see his jaw drop and his eyes wide. But equally the photos need to be tasteful and not too in your face sexy.
Why, well he would probably like in your face sexy, but for longevity, he will be more interested and proud of you in tasteful photos than, blatant sexual photos. It is kind of like Marilyn Monroe verses Deep throat Debbie and the dildo dollies. Who lasted the longest, who captured the hearts and minds of men for the longest. If you don’t know who Deep throat Debbie is, point proven. The last thing to consider when deciding tastefully erotic verses blatantly sexual is what happens if you mum finds the album or your kids find it. Then you will know. If you go for tasteful you can proudly announce to your kids yes mummy can be very glamorous.
As for your husband or boyfriend you will be the queen of all his dreams, for, …well… Forever. You will never grow old in the photos. Your beauty, your emotional power and influence preserved forever. Aren’t you just so clever, good job he deserves you. This is truly the ultimate gift for your husband boyfriend.
They say the difference between a man and a boy is just the price of his toy. I get the idea, but have you seen the price of toys these days. Well any way guys do like toys and gadgets so think along these lines.
Any radio controlled flying model, eg a mini radio controlled helicopter. Yes it is a fact, did you know your boyfriend/husband really wants to be captain scarlet. The system never quite knocked that out of him.
Does your man look very uneasy when you mention cleaning? Sooth his troubled mind with the new mini Robomop softbase, yes this little baby cleans stuff, but because it is a gadget, he will love playing with it, and joy oh joy you finally got him cleaning.
The mp4 film watch for under £50. why do men love gadgets. Well it has something to do with well just being a boy, but also the only viable role model he ever had when growing up was either James Bond or Bat Man. Yes, yes, I know it is sad, but guys just need some more viable role models, it’s not their fault.
If your husband is well educated then he will obviously have an in depth knowledge of Captain Kirk, Dr Who and Obi Wan Kenobi. Which one is the best….
Oh, don’t you know anything; it is Dr Who of course, and thank God for that. Why? Because he has more cool gadgets and know how than all the rest put together. But this is good because he doesn’t fight. Yep no fisticuffs, just pure know how and he is cool. So a few years ago a Dr Who scarf would have been a cool option, but now you can actually buy a Dr Who sonic screwdriver. OK it is for kids but did you know.
Your husbands has always wanted one of these, and with its ultra violate capability it can be used to detect forged bank notes and credit cards, and he can write invisible messages with it. Maybe he will write some sweet romantic message for you. But you’ll need to use the ultra violet end to read it.
Well now for the ultimate gifts, is it make love or make war. Let’s end with the best so; the ultimate gadget gift for you husband or boyfriend is this…
OK for many years now he has had a secret desire. A desire to have knowledge and ability above and beyond other men. He wants to be the very best for you and your family, he wants to attain the ultimate status for you and those he loves, yes you guessed it your husband wants… he wants to be… well… he wants to be a Jedi; the ultimate gift of course is a light sabre. Not some kiddies one, not plastic rubbish but the proper one. One with a bright beam of light and it makes all the right sounds and things, it looks cool and every thing. The sounds are very important. Have you ever noticed how men can mimic any action sound? Weird isn’t it! The down side is, they sell for about £99 and the more down side, one is no good, you need two before your boys can be fighting properly.
Do not despair because we left the best to last. If you are a woman you have infinite resources to provide the very best thing in the whole world. The thing that every man wants, guaranteed. The thing that will satisfy his every desire his every longing. The thing that can cement your relationship and secure his love forever. What is it? Well ask your self, what does he love most in the whole world, I mean beyond football and beer, these are just substitutes. What does he love the most, what would he dedicate his whole life to willingly…
It is you of course. He loves you most of all in the whole world. Maybe you feel that you have already given yourself, and all the energy you have. Maybe you feel tired, don’t worry, just let us give you this idea, and we promise it is the best gift ever for you husband or boyfriend. He idealises you, I know it can be hard to believe sometimes but he does. You are the source of all his love comfort and beauty. If some celeb is providing the beauty then watch him kick her ass out of your relationship when you give him the best gift ever.
What is it, it is a glamorous/sexy photo of you in a nice tasteful frame. I know what you might be thinking. But I’m too fat, not glam enough. The celebs are perfect I am not. Well, Forget all this, you have the ultimate emotional power. To start with you are a real woman, you are actually really with your guy. He can reach out and touch you. He chose you anyway. The media portrays a very specific beauty that all men are supposed to desire. Except they don’t, there is endless beauty in variety, and the good news, the older a man is the more he realises this and throws off the brainwashing of the media. Then there is the fact that a good photographer can make anyone look fantastic. If you’re not convinced of that then there is technology. Computers can be used to make you look tall thing wide, tanned pale anything you want. This photo will be the very best gift ever you give him. There is only one thing better.
Variety, why give him one photo when you could give him a whole album. Get some trusted friend to take the pics then take them to a professional to do the techniqual stuff. Your friend needs to be a good photographer. Or better if you can afford it go to a professional photographer and start from scratch.
An album will be better that one photo, just because it provides infinite variety. Try wearing different costumes. If you have seen him looking at princess lea, or wonder woman with a little twinkle in his eye. Don’t let them get the twinkle, you can hire some costumes and take all that glamour for your self. In his eyes you will become every beautiful woman there is. Every time he sees an image of wonder woman he will think of you, and how he is the luckiest man in the world. If beauty was like wealth, don’t worry that the celebs are more wealthy than you, you can steel away there wealth, just steel their image. Your man is on your side. He will worship your beauty in their clothes. This is just how a man’s mind works.
Giving him photos is like becoming a celeb yourself. Having glamorous or sexy photos is like being on TV. If he looks at these every day, it is like you are on TV every day. You become the celeb you affirm your status as the most important woman in his life.
Some tips, always make the photos glamorous or sexy for maximum impact. You don’t want to hear, ‘that’s nice luv’ you want to see his jaw drop and his eyes wide. But equally the photos need to be tasteful and not too in your face sexy.
Why, well he would probably like in your face sexy, but for longevity, he will be more interested and proud of you in tasteful photos than, blatant sexual photos. It is kind of like Marilyn Monroe verses Deep throat Debbie and the dildo dollies. Who lasted the longest, who captured the hearts and minds of men for the longest. If you don’t know who Deep throat Debbie is, point proven. The last thing to consider when deciding tastefully erotic verses blatantly sexual is what happens if you mum finds the album or your kids find it. Then you will know. If you go for tasteful you can proudly announce to your kids yes mummy can be very glamorous.
As for your husband or boyfriend you will be the queen of all his dreams, for, …well… Forever. You will never grow old in the photos. Your beauty, your emotional power and influence preserved forever. Aren’t you just so clever, good job he deserves you. This is truly the ultimate gift for your husband boyfriend.
Sunday, 1 November 2009
10 big mistakes on the first date
From talking to friends of both genders, from personal experience and form some social psychology here they are ten big mistakes to make on a first date and some better suggestions.
First date mistake 1.
Wearing too much after-shave, or perfume it’s too over powering and makes you unpleasant to be close to, trust me it does. A hint of scent will make your date want to come closer. Why because it smells nice but they can’t quite get it, they have to get closer to get the full experience.
First date mistake 2.
Going somewhere noisy you can’t talk. Too quiet and the pressure is on to talk. You need some quietly present background noise. So you can still chat, but the pauses are not painful.
First date mistake 3.
Talking about your last relationship. Your date will wonder how long it will be before you are talking about them like that.
First date mistake 4.
Talking about your future together it makes you seem desperate and clingy.
First date mistake 5.
Talking too much, create a balance, you must talk then listen. Listen as much as you talk.
First date mistake 6.
Men like to talk to impress, but often women are impressed more by how well a man can listen.
She will know you are listening when you restate what she says. E.g. she says I have such fun with my friend Stacy, you reply wow Stacy must know you very well.
First date mistake 7.
Assume you know your date, talk to them find out what they really like, but also offer a balance of information about your self. Or they could feel they are doing all the giving and they know nothing about you. Do know when to shut up about your self though. Keep the balance.
First date mistake 8.
Criticising your friends it makes you untrustworthy. If your date likes that kind of talk, do you really want to be with that kind of person?
First date mistake 9.
Bringing a huge gift, it makes you look desperate to impress, on the first date a small token is better; it promises of things to come and does not make your date feel indebted. It will also allow your date to keep their attention on you as a person rather than on the gift. If a huge gift is expected what will be expected later, can you sustain that, do you really want that kind of relationship.
First date mistake 10.
Not knowing what to do or where to go, or calling all the shots. You need to have some ideas and suggestions but allow your date to choose. They do not have to think too hard or take all the responsibility but they still get to choose. How nice is that.
First date mistake 1.
Wearing too much after-shave, or perfume it’s too over powering and makes you unpleasant to be close to, trust me it does. A hint of scent will make your date want to come closer. Why because it smells nice but they can’t quite get it, they have to get closer to get the full experience.
First date mistake 2.
Going somewhere noisy you can’t talk. Too quiet and the pressure is on to talk. You need some quietly present background noise. So you can still chat, but the pauses are not painful.
First date mistake 3.
Talking about your last relationship. Your date will wonder how long it will be before you are talking about them like that.
First date mistake 4.
Talking about your future together it makes you seem desperate and clingy.
First date mistake 5.
Talking too much, create a balance, you must talk then listen. Listen as much as you talk.
First date mistake 6.
Men like to talk to impress, but often women are impressed more by how well a man can listen.
She will know you are listening when you restate what she says. E.g. she says I have such fun with my friend Stacy, you reply wow Stacy must know you very well.
First date mistake 7.
Assume you know your date, talk to them find out what they really like, but also offer a balance of information about your self. Or they could feel they are doing all the giving and they know nothing about you. Do know when to shut up about your self though. Keep the balance.
First date mistake 8.
Criticising your friends it makes you untrustworthy. If your date likes that kind of talk, do you really want to be with that kind of person?
First date mistake 9.
Bringing a huge gift, it makes you look desperate to impress, on the first date a small token is better; it promises of things to come and does not make your date feel indebted. It will also allow your date to keep their attention on you as a person rather than on the gift. If a huge gift is expected what will be expected later, can you sustain that, do you really want that kind of relationship.
First date mistake 10.
Not knowing what to do or where to go, or calling all the shots. You need to have some ideas and suggestions but allow your date to choose. They do not have to think too hard or take all the responsibility but they still get to choose. How nice is that.
Friday, 30 October 2009
Quick way to understand men or inside a man’s mind
Men are made of the stuff of little boys. His emotions, personality, dreams, and ways of behaving all have their foundation in a little boy.
Little boys see that girls are admired just for being, being pretty, being sweet, being mummy or daddy’s little girl (Yes it is a generalisation)
It is not so for little boys (Usually) they find they are only admired when they do something special. They see older boys admired of doing something special.
So they set off on their life’s quest to do something special so they will be loved and admired. The Key word here is DO the must do something, just to be loved. They must be competent skilled and clever or so they think.
No wonder the poor dears get into so much trouble. So the next time you find some man maybe even a man you like annoying you by doing things to try and impress you, or telling you what wonderful things he has done. Remember this is his cry for love, he is saying please love me, care about me. I am a good boy.
So apply some emotional intelligence, and you can become the most wonderful woman in the world to him, and leave any competition standing in the dust wondering what happened.
What’s the best response? Validate him! Comment on him being so clever to have done that. Or so competent, or skilled, appear impressed or happy. He will feel delighted and do all he can to make you feel happier and sustain your happiness.
Later you can work on what really makes you happy, once he knows you are the only one, he needs.
If some guy is just annoying you and you want him to go and leave you. The very best way is to validate him and then gently send him on his way, but it must be very clear. Something like “you are a very sweet guy, you’ll be good for some girl but your not right for me”
Guys only get aggressive if they feel they have been lead on and made a fool. Or there is ambiguity that leads to frustration. Similar thing, or their mates are watching and they feel a fool. Or you deliberately insult or bitch them up, when they have just offered their heart to you and now feel like a fool. You have shown them to be incompetent and not clever.
I could go on about this for ever but am desperately trying to keep it short. I have written many articles on relationships and emotional intelligence look out for them.
Little boys see that girls are admired just for being, being pretty, being sweet, being mummy or daddy’s little girl (Yes it is a generalisation)
It is not so for little boys (Usually) they find they are only admired when they do something special. They see older boys admired of doing something special.
So they set off on their life’s quest to do something special so they will be loved and admired. The Key word here is DO the must do something, just to be loved. They must be competent skilled and clever or so they think.
No wonder the poor dears get into so much trouble. So the next time you find some man maybe even a man you like annoying you by doing things to try and impress you, or telling you what wonderful things he has done. Remember this is his cry for love, he is saying please love me, care about me. I am a good boy.
So apply some emotional intelligence, and you can become the most wonderful woman in the world to him, and leave any competition standing in the dust wondering what happened.
What’s the best response? Validate him! Comment on him being so clever to have done that. Or so competent, or skilled, appear impressed or happy. He will feel delighted and do all he can to make you feel happier and sustain your happiness.
Later you can work on what really makes you happy, once he knows you are the only one, he needs.
If some guy is just annoying you and you want him to go and leave you. The very best way is to validate him and then gently send him on his way, but it must be very clear. Something like “you are a very sweet guy, you’ll be good for some girl but your not right for me”
Guys only get aggressive if they feel they have been lead on and made a fool. Or there is ambiguity that leads to frustration. Similar thing, or their mates are watching and they feel a fool. Or you deliberately insult or bitch them up, when they have just offered their heart to you and now feel like a fool. You have shown them to be incompetent and not clever.
I could go on about this for ever but am desperately trying to keep it short. I have written many articles on relationships and emotional intelligence look out for them.
Wednesday, 28 October 2009
Lie detector game
More on lies and being a human lie detector
Observing micro body language.
These are physiological changes in a person that happen in a microsecond, but guess what, our bodies have the perceptual ability to recognise these in a microsecond. It just takes practice and some trust in your own ability. But to those who do not possess this knowledge it seems like you have super human abilities.
How to get him back & keep him devoted, Click Here!
develop the perception necessary to detect lies
A little experiment you can do is this. Get a friend to write a number 1 to 10 in pencil on the top right hand corner of a paper back some where among the pages. Then you flick through the pages very fast until you think you may have seen something. Then guess what that number is. Then find the page and look at it. You will be surprised how often you can be right, and how much you improve with practice.
For the magic of making up Click Here!
micro physiological changes when people lie
OK so here's the cool deal, when people lie or feel some emotional stress the skin tone and colour of their face changes. Often it becomes slightly pink or more shiny or wet looking. But basically just changes in some way. Only minutely for a fraction of a second. You can spot this like you can spot the number in the book.
spot the lie game.
You can practice this with a trusted friend first, before you go making major judgements about your other relationships. Make sure you both know what you are doing. You are playing a spot the lie game.
So you ask real easy questions of your friend. Questions like what is your favourite colour or singer, how old are you. Then they know at some point they must tell a lie. Your job is firstly to spot the change in their face the colour texture etc of their skin and secondly to identify the lie.
Take turns being the liar and the detector. So your friend feels they are also gaining something form this. With practice you will become very good at this. And will develop this priceless perceptual ability.
Observing micro body language.
These are physiological changes in a person that happen in a microsecond, but guess what, our bodies have the perceptual ability to recognise these in a microsecond. It just takes practice and some trust in your own ability. But to those who do not possess this knowledge it seems like you have super human abilities.
How to get him back & keep him devoted, Click Here!
develop the perception necessary to detect lies
A little experiment you can do is this. Get a friend to write a number 1 to 10 in pencil on the top right hand corner of a paper back some where among the pages. Then you flick through the pages very fast until you think you may have seen something. Then guess what that number is. Then find the page and look at it. You will be surprised how often you can be right, and how much you improve with practice.
For the magic of making up Click Here!
micro physiological changes when people lie
OK so here's the cool deal, when people lie or feel some emotional stress the skin tone and colour of their face changes. Often it becomes slightly pink or more shiny or wet looking. But basically just changes in some way. Only minutely for a fraction of a second. You can spot this like you can spot the number in the book.
spot the lie game.
You can practice this with a trusted friend first, before you go making major judgements about your other relationships. Make sure you both know what you are doing. You are playing a spot the lie game.
So you ask real easy questions of your friend. Questions like what is your favourite colour or singer, how old are you. Then they know at some point they must tell a lie. Your job is firstly to spot the change in their face the colour texture etc of their skin and secondly to identify the lie.
Take turns being the liar and the detector. So your friend feels they are also gaining something form this. With practice you will become very good at this. And will develop this priceless perceptual ability.
Lies, be a human lie detector
Lies, be a human lie detector
Here are some very quick simple ways to test if your partner might be deceiving you, withholding something or downright lying to you.
People typically change the speed, at which they talk when they are lying, that is when you catch them off guard. They may speed up as they answer your most likely when they want you to leave the subject and not ask more. Or they can slow down, most likely if they are thinking of the excuse as they speak or want to sound extra convincing. If the lie has been well rehearsed it may sound normal.
Over elaborating.
When they come home do they want to tell you more about what they have been doing than usual? When you ask them about what they have been doing do they tell you too much?
Do they tell you less than usual, if you ask them they are evasive just saying they had a boring day.
Very clever technique,
If you ask them about some thing and you feel them become emotionally stressed like they are lying or wanting to change the subject. Allow them the change the subject or change it yourself and observe their emotional tension, does it decrease. Then later come back to that first subject and see if the tension comes back too. If so worth investigating further.
Here are some very quick simple ways to test if your partner might be deceiving you, withholding something or downright lying to you.
People typically change the speed, at which they talk when they are lying, that is when you catch them off guard. They may speed up as they answer your most likely when they want you to leave the subject and not ask more. Or they can slow down, most likely if they are thinking of the excuse as they speak or want to sound extra convincing. If the lie has been well rehearsed it may sound normal.
Over elaborating.
When they come home do they want to tell you more about what they have been doing than usual? When you ask them about what they have been doing do they tell you too much?
Do they tell you less than usual, if you ask them they are evasive just saying they had a boring day.
Very clever technique,
If you ask them about some thing and you feel them become emotionally stressed like they are lying or wanting to change the subject. Allow them the change the subject or change it yourself and observe their emotional tension, does it decrease. Then later come back to that first subject and see if the tension comes back too. If so worth investigating further.
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